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We also keep our promises even if it does take some time. This article goes out to a good friend whom I promised that I would write said article.
Why Your Relationship Ended?
Break Up Reason #1: You’re Not Good Enough
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Break Up Reason #2: the Asian Parents Have All the Power
Many Asian children will live with their parents after college and while they’re working. It’s a great way to save up money, so they can buy a house much earlier (the long run [see above]). That means that they won’t move in with you because that means now they have to cover half your rent, and geez, if you need help paying half the rent, you’re already on shaky grounds there. If you keep pushing for them to leave their parents’ house because you want to grow your relationship, your partner is going to dump you like having too much street cart food (TOTALLY WORTH IT THOUGH – the street cart food… maybe the dumping – you can figure it out).
You’ve created conflict. You might not think of it as conflict because you’re not of Asian culture, and you think it’s completely normal for children to leave the nest. BUT IT’S NOT. Your partner will talk to his/her parents. They will tell him/her no because it’s not smart financially. Then they’ll ask what if you break up? Then you have to break the lease, which won’t be smart financially. Then there will be so much drama. SO MUCH.
|And the seed of failed relationship #235 was planted | From Eternal Echoes|
And your partner won’t keep pushing. It’s easier to get into a fight with you than it is to get into a fight with the parents. They’re just too smart and win all the time. I can’t wait to have that power.
And if the parents just don’t like you to begin with (which happens quite a lot), your relationship will never progress, which means that there’s an expiration date.
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