Just agree with them and move on. My mother calls me stupid, I agree, and we’re good. If I defend myself, then it becomes a week long argument about how I don’t appreciate her and I never agree with her. Once more, just agree with them, even if they’re yelling at you, which brings us to the next point.
Many of you might have heard of the “Tiger Mom” because of Amy Chua’s book. You might be scared about meeting your Asian significant other’s mother. You might be afraid of Asian women in general.
You should be. Even I, loved by mothers everywhere (many exes’ mothers have told me how much they liked me even after we stopped dating), am afraid to cross an Asian mother. Hence, I only date non-Asians… but that’s a story for another time.
But here are some tips to help approach them without losing your head.
1. Notice that Asian mothers are beautiful and like all beautiful people, they act with a sense of self-confidence that borders onto the line of I-will-destroy-you-if-I-so-feel.